God and Marriage

The Pure Bed is to be a resource for ALL married men and women. As a matter of course, however, the site is a reflection of our faith in God and our understanding of His will for intimacy in the context of marriage. What follows is a basic description of our beliefs with respect to that will.

Communicating Boundaries

Husbands and wives must agree on the rules and boundaries of their sexual activity. It is destructive to ‘guilt’ or to coerce your spouse into sexual activities to which they are opposed or that cause them discomfort. However, sex is best when each spouse is selfless. Each lover must proactively seek to please the other.

Marital Infidelity: Learning To Trust Again

The issue of trust has been on our mind as of late. We know that many of us have had our trust broken or broken the trust of another. Whether sexual (unfaithfulness, molestation, rape), abuse (verbal or physical), or other acts that dishonor or offend…the question becomes how do we learn to rebuild broken trust.