This is the second of a three part series. We’d like to share some strategies for dealing with sexually inhibited, introverted or repressed spouses. And we do…
To reiterate, the reasons are numerous as to why some spouses are intensely reluctant to openly share their sexual thoughts and desires…or to respond to yours! Our upbringing, cultural influences, faith convictions and past interpersonal relationships are but a few of the contributors to our sexual personalities. However, if you are at an end of your rope as to how to get your inhibited spouse to ‘open up’, we provide some very general approaches to drawing them out and for kindling sexual exploration and adventure in your marriage.
Sexual intimacy requires mutual trust and a sense of relational security. What this means to you is that your spouse (and you) needs to have a fundamental belief that you have their best interest at heart, think highly of them and that they can express things with you and to you as with no other. Along those lines, getting past their barriers may require focused effort on your part. We’ll share the second of three approaches or strategies for your consideration. The second: Read the rest of this entry »
