Available Now! Your Sexual Attitude 2.0
Posted by thepurebed on July 6, 2009
Slavish unthinking adherence to a sexual routine that is comfortable, familiar and boring…
This is the plight of too many married couples who’ve consigned sex to a weekend event that is more function than fun. What can we say to get you to see the necessity of experiencing sexual intimacy that is physically superior, mentally stimulating and emotionally binding? How do we get you to the next level of sexual fulfillment? Are you ready to upgrade your attitude toward sex?
Globally, our first real education about sex seems to be between the ages of 12 and 16 years old. Most report that primary sex education was by friends, media, school and a first partner. Low on the list of primary sources for sex education were parents, guardians, other family members and church. Ouch!
The key to ever successfully improving or changing is to recognize and acknowledge our deficiency. Is it possible that we’ve acquired too many bad sexual habits and wrong information over our lifetimes? Might our expectations, outlooks and experiences be colored by wrong-minded views and inappropriate demands? Maybe.
One sure fire way to know if you have a healthy attitude toward sex is to ask your spouse whether they see you as being 100 percent committed to their sexual satisfaction and devoted to being an increasingly skilled lover. Of course, one main dysfunction in our sex lives is that we lie to one another. “You’re the biggest I’ve ever had” Makes size an issue.) “You put your thing down, big Daddy!” (Makes him think hard aggressive penetration the key to sexual success!) And, of course, the rap on men is that we say precious little. We just grunt and grope! (Makes her think all she has to do is moan and wiggle a little.)
Let’s re-evaluate what is important about our physical intimacy. What are we accomplishing by coming together (pun sorta intended)? What can we accomplish?
Let’s start having a serious discussion about developing a sexual attitude wherein sex is a means (not an end) of giving ourselves to one another. In a relationship where the central commitment is to ‘have and to h0ld ’til death do us part’, what can be more fundamental than to share love that is selfless, focused and unquestionably committed. Sex can be that… Sex can do that…
