Size Matters

Does Penis Size Really Matter

The Measure of a Man?

In matters of sexual adequacy, penis size gets a lot of press and is a popular subject for both women’s and men’s magazines, newspapers and late night television ads. And while a sexually dysfunctional society reinforces the notion of male adequacy as measured by the size of his penis, there are some very practical considerations for a couple (or spouse) who grapples with this question.  The Pure Bed addresses the notion of what is a normal penis size and how it affects sexual satisfaction for wives because our audience seems to care about this matter of penis size. (continued below)

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Firstly, studies have reflected throughout the years that the average male penis size is approximately 5 to 6 inches when erect. However, the range of sizes that comprise this average size may be from 3.5 to  9 inches with more men at the bottom end of the range than the upper. In other words, your 4 inches may be as normal as a man who measures 6 inches when erect dependent upon other factors (body size, ethnicity, etc.).

Next, a wife’s g-spot is believed to typically be within the first 1 to 1.5 inches inside her vagina. it is stimulated at penetration by the penis head. The average woman’s vagina is about as deep as the average man’s penis. And even though many women like the sensation of their vagina being “full”, the overwhelming data on what brings a female to orgasm (aside from the emotional or relational factors) point to clitoral and g-spot stimulation. Neither of these require a long penis. In fact, the girth (fatness) of the penis may be of greater effect than length.
 
Lastly, the majority of sexual reported by wives have more to do with their husbands’ attentiveness than with the size of their penis. It may be the case that the actual physical experience of intercourse is only one of many components that contribute to a wife’s perception of sexual gratification.

Let’s not let the cultural message that ‘bigger is better’ be the grounds for considering what works for us as married couples.  Certainly there are non-surgical options to augment penis size (extenders fr added length, rings for added girth).  We wouldn’t dare begrudge a husband and wife for their desire to explore these alternatives.  However, we are always better served and closer to fulfillment when we begin sexual intimacy with being attentive and observant lovers and use that as the basis for how we measure up as sexual partners…not simply penis size.   

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2 Responses to Size Matters

  1. Ben says:

    I appreciate the article, and it’s great to see somebody in the Christian community not scarred to share the facts that go against mainstream culture. Thanks for posting it! I do have to say though that the poor grammar was a distraction and added confusion to some of the comments in the article. Especially in this paragraph, I’m not really 100% sure what this means:

    “However, the range of sizes that comprise this average size may be from 3.5 to (inches with more men at the bottom end of the range than the upper. In other words, your 4 inches may be as normal as a man who measures 6 inches when erect dependent upon other factors (body size, ethnicity, etc.).”

    Can you clarify?

    Also, I’ve heard something as well that this attitude of “bigger is better” would never dare to mention, that when the guy is huge and the girl has a small opening, it can actually result in pain for the woman. That makes us average size guys more happy about our averageness!

  2. thepurebed says:

    Thank you for your words of encouragement.

    The section in question should have read:

    “However, the range of sizes that comprise this average size may be from 3.5 to 9 inches with more men at the bottom end of the range than the upper. In other words, your 4 inches may be as normal as a man who measures 6 inches when erect dependent upon other factors (body size, ethnicity, etc.).”

    We don’t always get to see the distribution of men at each size. There may be as many or more study respondents at 4 inches as at 6 inches when erect. 30% of men may fall into the 4 inch category. However, if 20+ percent of responding men are in excess of 8 or so inches, it drives the average erect size up toward 6 inches.

    As far as the factors that influence penis size, a man who is smaller in stature may likely have a penis size (length) that is proportionally smaller. Studies show that some ethnic males have a slightly greater average erect penis length as compared to some other ethnic males. Groups of men who are more prone to certain circulatory diseases will likely not achieve erections of length or duration that is common to their peer group.

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