Free Electronic Book Giveaway!

As appreciation for being a blog visitor and/or TPB customer, we are going to give you a special gift…ABSOLUTELY FREE!

It is the latest book by our friends, Robert & Susan Irwin.

Appearing on television, radio and in printed media, Robert & Susan have spent over a decade helping married Christian couples to improve their married sex lives.

Their books are some of the most popular Christian sex guides available anywhere.

They have just finished up a new, big book (over 200 pages) and it is filled with answers to, just about, every question you might have about how to improve YOUR married sex life.

Even better, because Robert owes me a favor, I talked him into offering our supporters a copy for the very low price of…FREE!

It is titled…

Christian Couples Marriage Retreat

Retreat site: Pacific Palms Resort

The early registration deadline for the Our Intimate Choices Marriage Retreat is fast approaching (Nov. 30).

This year’s retreat is in Southern California.  Future retreats are being considered for Texas and Canada.  The dates and exact locations are yet to be determined.

This retreat is a unique experience for married Christian couples.  We expose the wealth of information that the Bible provides as guidance for a healthy and fulfilling sex life. 

Beyond the platitudes that sex is special and for marriage, OIC will show couples how scriptural principles speak to our common (and not so common) sexual challenges and questions: mismatched libido, withholding sex, managing sexual dysfunction, pornography, depressed sex drive, sexual selflessness vs. selfishness, body image and more.  OIC will speak to the variety of sexual acts about which Christian couples seem to have so many questions: oral sex, anal sex, spanking, fetish, sex toy usage, fantasy and role play and other questions and concerns as anonymously submitted by attendees. 

Attendees will also have an opportunity to meet with my wife and I privately to get advice and guidance on specific issues and concerns.

This January weekend will be a time of renewal and restoration for many.  We plan to also have ThePureBed.com products available for purchase at a discount and prize giveaways including free night’s stay at the resort, free spa treatments and more.

Visit OurIntimateChoices.com for more information and to register.  Don’t forget to reserve your resort room!

The TPB Husbands Forum, Our Intimate Choices and ThePureBed.com are ventures of Bordenz Enterprises, The Marriage Company.

Marriage and Sex Podcasts

As a result of the success of our blog and newsletter, we are testing the response of our visitors to podcasts on marriage and sexual intimacy.

LoveNotes.ThePureBed.com will become a growing library of topical podcasts about all of the issues in this blog, our newsletter, in our Januray Marriage Retreat, on our site and more…

We hope you will visit and even comment on the podcasts as we develop and publish them.  We are not professional and our production is fairly crude but we are excited that the content will progressively overwhelm the presentation!

Choices (Christian Romance Home Parties) Is Launched!

Bordenz Enterprises, owner-operators of ThePureBed.com are launching their direct sales program, Our Intimate Choices Home Parties.  This is truly a unique opportunity for married Christians who might appreciate a fusion between economic opportunity and relevant ministry. 

Choices will principally serve

I Touch Myself: Christians and Masturbation

The following outlines a counter thought to the belief in the Christian community that masturbation is an offense against God or healthy sexuality for people of faith.

Our Intimate Choices Marriage Retreat

Retreat site: Pacific Palms Resort

The Church, rather Catholic or Protestant, has long struggled to find its voice in promoting the virtue and value of sex while admonishing of its vices.  Over time, there has been the perception that the church is only willing to speak to those vices (adultery, premarital sex, etc.).  In truth, there are those who promote and herald the voice of God concerning positive sexuality in the context of marriage.  However, they are few and access to them may elude many as such conferences and retreats can cost upwards of $1200 and are often too general in their content to permit married Christian couples to gain a foundation that serves them in the long term.  We need more resources that help us answer the questions about how our attitudes and choices align with our faith (is oral sex

The Pure Bed Distributor Program

The Pure Bed is developing a new program that will be unique and give married Christian wives (perhaps husbands) an opportunity to earn money while sharing much needed truth and information concerning a Christian view of sex in marriage.

You may have heard of and/or attended home parties where products are introduced and sold. We are developing a similar distributorship system where enterprising Christian wives can minister about intimacy in marriage and have their own business as a distributor for The Pure Bed.

Our program will train you how to setup ‘home parties’ for married women (perhaps couples)!  We have heard from so many of you who are already distributors for other adult home party companies but would dearly prefer participating in a program that respected your faith and promoted the value of marriage. You also want to be free to minister as well as provide your products. The uniqueness of our program will be the ability of women to minister to other women about Biblical principles of sexuality that can enhance intimacy in their marriage.

As a distributor, you will manage your own business, presenting products and earning commissions. This opportunity is being developed to be the idealsituation for stay-at-home-moms and working wives who want to make extra money. The earning opportunity can be quite lucrative or just a great supplement for the grocery and gas budget. You will determine the scope of your success! Additionally, our long term goal is to have husband-wife teams ministering and marketing to other couples. We believe that the Christian community is increasingly accepting of messages about positive sexuality in a world that treats sex like a handshake! Our program will give the Christian distributor a competitive edge in that she (they) will serve a niche market (married Christians) and sell products that are better priced than currently offered by the other Home Party systems.

To be among the first to receive information about our new program, go here to register for the upcoming launch email detailing the program.  Completing the interest-form only communicates to us that you MAY be interested.  A process for joining the program will be forthcoming and you will only receive emails relative to this offer.

Free e-Booklet: Christian Sex Ethics

Download our free electronic booklet, Christian Sex Ethics, from The Pure Bed Married Couples Sex Series. This is a gift from us to you to start this grand new year.

Christian Sex Ethics

Christian Sex

There is no such animal.  Seriously?

Hat, Coat and Ego Please…

For a great number of us, checking our ego at the door is difficult when it comes to sex.   Often taking our cues from the media reinforced(pornography influenced) male sexual persona as domineering, we think of sex with our wives in terms of conquest.   A woman gagging on our