Become Delicious!

Remember the first line from the Toys ‘R Us jingle: I don’t want to grow up…

Becoming an adult, getting married and having children propel us into a life of responsibilities.  We have to get serious, be thoughtful and plan for the future.  Rare is the occasion at which we can revisit the playfulness of childhood when creativity meant abandoning convention.  Making a mess wasn’t looked upon fretfully because our first thought wasn’t who’s going to clean that up?

Sexual intimacy is

Oral Sex: Givers and Receivers

The act of oral sex has many idiomatic references in our English language.  Giving head, going down, eating out, and blow job are but a few.  Whatever your reference of choice, for those married couples who use it as a feature of sexual play, it can be a powerfully intimate experience OR an incredible let down!

While the level of skill exercised by the giver is a great factor in how much pleasure is experienced by the receiver, the importance of the

Marriage and Sex Podcasts

As a result of the success of our blog and newsletter, we are testing the response of our visitors to podcasts on marriage and sexual intimacy.

LoveNotes.ThePureBed.com will become a growing library of topical podcasts about all of the issues in this blog, our newsletter, in our Januray Marriage Retreat, on our site and more…

We hope you will visit and even comment on the podcasts as we develop and publish them.  We are not professional and our production is fairly crude but we are excited that the content will progressively overwhelm the presentation!

Our Intimate Choices Marriage Retreat

Retreat site: Pacific Palms Resort

The Church, rather Catholic or Protestant, has long struggled to find its voice in promoting the virtue and value of sex while admonishing of its vices.  Over time, there has been the perception that the church is only willing to speak to those vices (adultery, premarital sex, etc.).  In truth, there are those who promote and herald the voice of God concerning positive sexuality in the context of marriage.  However, they are few and access to them may elude many as such conferences and retreats can cost upwards of $1200 and are often too general in their content to permit married Christian couples to gain a foundation that serves them in the long term.  We need more resources that help us answer the questions about how our attitudes and choices align with our faith (is oral sex

It Isn’t Sex That She’s Avoiding…

It isn’t sex that’s she’s avoiding [what the title said].  It’s

Married Couples: Sex Positions

Creativity is critical for those who want to see an infusion of ’spice’ into their marriage’s sexual routine.  Spice is really the

Married Sex: Location, Location, Location

Variety is the spice of life!  So they say…  Variety is most certainly the spice of sex.  And there is variety to be had in most every area of our intimate encounters, including

Frottage

Do you know about frottage ?  We may more commonly know it as dry humping…though it may not be altogether dry!

Basically, frottage or dry humping is grinding the vulva against some part of husband’s body for stimulation. Rubbing on or humping his thigh, his pubic bone, or even his tailbone (horse back ride) can be a stimulating exercise. 

If wife has an extremely sensitive clitoris, she may especially appreciate the indirect stimulation.   Clothes on or off, a good time can be had.  Frottage.

The Tongue: The Gap Between Exercise and Ecstasy

The tongue is a masterful lover’s greatest tool…well, perhaps their next greatest tool.  

A Wife’s Perspective On Stimulation Techniques!

What follows is a wife’s perspective on what husbands may do to enhance clitoral stimulation.  Remember these thoughts are addressed to husbands.