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We have this:

The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. I Corinthians 7:4 KJV

What is a Christian couple to make of this verse in the context of Paul’s teaching about sexual intimacy in marriage?

As the preceding verse establishes that Read more of this post

Thank You!

The Pure Bed

2011 was an extraordinary year for us on many fronts.  We had our best sales year.  We were able to minister to married couples in churches, small group meetings, special marriage events and online.

We give our God the glory.  And we are thankful for you.

We are so very thankful to you for your support.  Whether you follow and/or retweet us on Twitter, Like us on Facebook, subscribe to our newsletter at ThePureBed.com or our blog, purchased from our store, joined the discussions at our forum for husbands, joined one of our Choices events, THANK YOU!

We desire to take our celebration,  advocacy and support of marital intimacy to another level in 2012.  We look forward to two book releases, more online events and one-on-one  interactions with couples.  Our store will be reorganized to provide more product information. And we look forward to doors opening of which we have not even conceived.

Our most important mission is your [prospective] marriage.  Marriage is the cornerstone of every strong community.  Our houses of state can do nothing if our individual houses are faltering. 

Thank you for helping us lift marriage and, in most instances, to lift God through our discourses.  Thank you.  Thank you.  Thank YOU!

Energizing Your Sex Life

Energizing Your Sex Life

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The bad rap on marriage is that wedded couples experience diminished quantity and quality.  Whether it is the familiarity couples enjoy with one another, the rigors of our daily lives or a combination of these and other factors, the reality is that sex can get routine and less fulfilling without some proaction.  We recommend 3 areas that can Read more of this post

The Inaugural Choices Tele-Chat

A new kind of Choices™ Marriage Event…

Join us on this conference call to have your question(s) answered and Read more of this post

Marriage: Free Help with Communication

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Have you had some issues in your marriage with which you and your mate struggle continuously?  Have you felt like it was difficult to have a substantive conversation because one or both of you got defensive, shut down or struggled to understand the other’s perspective?

What about your sex life?  Are there things you’d like to discuss but don’t know how to bring them up or explain them in a way that is constructive?  There is a FREE Read more of this post

Foreplay: The Power of Touch

We’ve posted previously about the benefits of sensory deprivation.  Removing the use of one sense tends to heighten the sensitivity of the remaining ones.  We can use this to intensify our spouse’s arousal (or they of us).

Idea:

Use an old silk scarf or Read more of this post

Become Delicious!

Remember the first line from the Toys ‘R Us jingle: I don’t want to grow up

BecCHOCOLATE BODY TATTOO KIToming an adult, getting married and having children propel us into a life of responsibilities.  We have to get serious, be thoughtful and plan for the future.  Rare is the occasion at which we can revisit the playfulness of childhood when creativity meant abandoning convention.  Making a mess wasn’t looked upon fretfully because our first thought wasn’t who’s going to clean that up?

Sexual intimacy is Read more of this post

Oral Sex: Givers and Receivers

The act of oral sex has many idiomatic references in our English language.  Giving head, going down, eating out, and blow job are but a few.  Whatever your reference of choice, for those married couples who use it as a feature of sexual play, it can be a powerfully intimate experience OR an incredible let down!

While the level of skill exercised by the giver is a great factor in how much pleasure is experienced by the receiver, the importance of the Read more of this post

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