Husbands Becoming Better lovers!

The struggle for couples to find their sexual stride and work cooperatively to achieve sexual fulfillment can be challenging.  Sexual compatibility is made more difficult when

Oral Sex: Creating The Best Experience for Your Spouse

The act of oral sex has many idiomatic references in our English language.  Giving head, going down, eating out, and blow job are but a few.  Whatever your reference of choice, for those married couples who use it as a feature of sexual play, it can be a powerfully intimate experience OR an incredible let down!

When Masturbation Is Mastering You!

Compulsive masturbation.   While we are led to believe it typically happens among men (particularly younger men), it can and does occur among women also.   The compulsion is clear by observing certain behaviors in yourself or spouse:

Do You Know His Erogenous Zones?

Wives, do you know what areas of your dear husband’s body are most sensitive to touch?  Where, besides his penis, is he responsive to heightened arousal?

Press: ThePureBed.Com on National Public Radio

Preaching The Gospel of Good Sex

Friends, Romans…countrymen(women), lend me your ears!

Check out this piece on us at the link above.   Jessica Alpert, an independent producer, spent a couple of days with us to try and capture ThePureBed.com’s story.  Three things to know: 1. our story has been digested to 5 minutes so don’t think you’ll know all about us, 2. the opening to the story is atrocious and that is out of Jessica’s and our hands and 3. the piece itself pleased us in that it essentially communicates the message we’d like to promote…married sex can be righteous, hot and monogamous!

Oral Notes

Ever tell your child you really like something they’ve done?  Ever fawn over a cute song they’ve song or the like?  You know what happens.  All of a sudden they’re like ‘Mommy, look!’  They’re repeating the action night and day, ad nauseum.  Hey kid!  Enough already! 

Let’s you and I talk getting better cunnilingus.

Wives: What To Do When On Top

Some (perhaps you) may be wondering ‘what in the world do I do when I’m on top‘.

The issues are how to move, what to do with the hands, how to know what’s working, and how to get pleasure as well as give.  Well ladies, I will say I think that woman on top (WOT) can be one of a wife’s favorite when done well.

Why?  With WOT, we control:

Wives: Achieving Orgasm

The most frequently voiced frustration for us is that of wives who cannot achieve orgasm consistently.  We thought to share a few techniques to spark your own imagination and help you and dear husband know the ‘O’!  Let us begin.

Married Sex Jeopardy: Quid Pro Quo

Trade-offs (I’ll do this if you’ll do that) may seem equal and fair, but in reality, each partner instinctively may rule out anything that makes him or her uptight. 

Take Me In The Field

Would you or have you and DH made love outside of the confines of your home…other than a hotel room? (This assumes the place, while public, provided some measure of discretion.)