I Want to Be a Better Lover for My Wife

ImageSo you really want to be a better lover to your wife?  This is a noble aspiration and one that all husbands should share.  people get better at money management and parenting.  In fact, people are constantly looking for ways to improve in and get more out of most areas of their lives.  Why not get better at sex?

The challenge is where do you start, dear husband.  Well, we believe there are three areas that should get his immediate attention: Read more of this post

Date Smart

The Dating GameDating can be difficult.  You have some sense of what you need and want but, often, can’t seem to find enough in a prospective mate to get you to the altar.

Your challenge is to 1.) determine whether your ideals for a mate are realistic and yet 2.) discipline yourself so that you don’t settle for something less than what will fulfill you.  We give you (5) gender-neutral tips to help singles date smarter!

1. Be at Read more of this post

Your Doubts Were Born Somewhere. Go There!

When the dysfunctional couple courts, the signs of doom are there:

He: Yes. At last. It was so hard to wait.

She: Do you want me to leave? Read more of this post

Do Not Disturb

Do Not Disturb boudoir sign

We have this:

The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. I Corinthians 7:4 KJV

What is a Christian couple to make of this verse in the context of Paul’s teaching about sexual intimacy in marriage?

As the preceding verse establishes that Read more of this post

3 Things We Think Married Couples Must Know

In no particular order, here are three issues we look forward to blogging more about in 2012!  Of course, when we talk about sex, it is in the context of marriage between one man and one woman.

1. Orgasm isn’t Read more of this post

Thank You!

The Pure Bed

2011 was an extraordinary year for us on many fronts.  We had our best sales year.  We were able to minister to married couples in churches, small group meetings, special marriage events and online.

We give our God the glory.  And we are thankful for you.

We are so very thankful to you for your support.  Whether you follow and/or retweet us on Twitter, Like us on Facebook, subscribe to our newsletter at ThePureBed.com or our blog, purchased from our store, joined the discussions at our forum for husbands, joined one of our Choices events, THANK YOU!

We desire to take our celebration,  advocacy and support of marital intimacy to another level in 2012.  We look forward to two book releases, more online events and one-on-one  interactions with couples.  Our store will be reorganized to provide more product information. And we look forward to doors opening of which we have not even conceived.

Our most important mission is your [prospective] marriage.  Marriage is the cornerstone of every strong community.  Our houses of state can do nothing if our individual houses are faltering. 

Thank you for helping us lift marriage and, in most instances, to lift God through our discourses.  Thank you.  Thank you.  Thank YOU!

Scheduling Sex: Make Your Own Special Effects

Your life can be…hectic.  You have children, a job(s) or business, and a multiplicity of responsibilities.  It’s not happening spontaneously.  Too often, it’s barely happening at all.  Sex.

The prevailing myth is that sex in a marriage  is Read more of this post

3 Powerful Questions Spouses Ask Each Other

Inattention and disaffection are crippling to a marriage.  Becoming “one flesh” is complicated by the exponential growth of responsibility over the years of our marriages.  Before long, the urgent crowds out the important and our marriage relationship takes backseat to marriage business.

What follows are three questions that may Read more of this post

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