Foreplay: The Power of Touch

We’ve posted previously about the benefits of sensory deprivation.  Removing the use of one sense tends to heighten the sensitivity of the remaining ones.  We can use this to intensify our spouse’s arousal (or they of us).

Idea:

Use an old silk scarf or

Personal Lubricant 101

Lubrication can be an important component of pleasurable sexual play. While we may produce enough vaginal lubrication to allow for penetration, at times it may become necessary to use additional lube to help out.

Here is a basic  comparison of the two types of

Husbands Becoming Better lovers!

The struggle for couples to find their sexual stride and work cooperatively to achieve sexual fulfillment can be challenging.  Sexual compatibility is made more difficult when

Do You Know His Erogenous Zones?

Wives, do you know what areas of your dear husband’s body are most sensitive to touch?  Where, besides his penis, is he responsive to heightened arousal?

Married Sex: Sex Trade

Maybe the simpler way would be to perform oral sex on my spouse if they perform oral sex on me.  It certainly absolves us of having to figure out if each is making an equal contribution.  Or does it?  Trade-offs  (I’ll do this if you’ll do that) may seem equal and fair.  In practice, each partner is prone to rule out anything that makes him or her uptight.   It is the way of things.

Her Libido’s Fallen and It Can’t Get Up!

A wife’s loss of libido (desire for sex) may involve medical issues requiring the efforts of a medically trained professional or more severe relational issues arising from troubled relationships, present or past abuse.  There may be other circumstances requiring objective intervention by someone outside of the relationship.  

 

However, in many instances, a healthy drive can be regained and promoted by the dutiful efforts of a loving husband.  that’s you, dude!

 

We recommend some basic practical approaches to both spouses helping dear wife regain her desire for sex.

What’s The Secret To A Good Sensuous Kiss?

 I know what it is not.   It’s not:

Jugs, Cottage Cheese and Sexy!

Cottage Cheese

In a study conducted by the University of Colorado at Boulder, 40% of women and 10% of men would trade 3 to 5 years of their lives to achieve their weight goals.  The average girl started dieting at 14 years old in 1970.  By 1990, the starting age was 8.

After 5 children (twins through c-section), my body is a sight to behold in the light! I certainly wouldn’t qualify for centerfold in any magazine.  Okay, maybe I’d be in the running for