Sex: Grace Behind the Bedroom Door

Marriage Day

As we’re preparing to release our new e-book, a devotional for married couples, we are moved by just how practical biblical teaching is on the subject of sex in marriage.

Hyper-spiritualizing sex is detrimental to our ability to experience physical intimacy in marriage as it was designed–to be relational, spiritual and regular.   As Christians, we believe that our faith transforms even the most common life-function into something that must be glorifying to God (Colossians 3:17).  However, we must also acknowledge that many of the common functions of life–eating, talking….sex–have very pragmatic considerations too.  Hyper-spiritualizing sex is the practice of regarding the spiritual aspects of something at the expense of its natural aspects.

Christ and Apostle Paul each were very pragmatic in their treatment of sex while also recognizing the supernatural exchanges inherent to it.  Jesus invokes both the spiritual impact and the natural recourse of our sexual behaviors in Matthew chapters 5 and 19.  Paul does likewise in I Corinthians 7 and elevates the duty of mates toward one another sexually to a very high standard.  He teaches sex should be engaging, fulfilling and a regular part of married life.

This post is not to examine those teachings but to say that our reading of them as well as the entirety of scripture should not be merely to adopt a high-minded theological position on the power and purposes of human sexuality but to implore couples to be willing to discover how scripture guides us toward fruitful sexual behaviors.  We must prayerfully read and rightly divide God’s word so that we make right applications to our lives (2 Timothy 2:15).

If you are married or on a journey toward marriage, ask God to give you a fresh vision for the role of sex in marriage.  His grace does not stop at the bedroom door, allowing law to take over.  There is more virtue to sex than vice.

Help Get The Message Out

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Hello all!

It was a very productive summer for TPB.  We’re publishing a couple of new books, updating our inventory and redesigning our categories and we have done quite a few media interviews.

One of the interviews was with a major network nationally televised news show here in the United States.  Over two days, camera crews sat with us to document what we do.  We were able to share what we believe God’s heart is for sex in marriages.  This was a wonderful experience for us and the technical crew, producers and interviewer were all great to us.

To complete the interview piece for their broadcast, the news show would like to interview married Christian couples who have used marital aids in their marriage.  TPB’s interview centered around the ethics of sex in the church and why we do what we do.  We are excited to have this huge platform to expose couples to a fresh vision for sexual intimacy in the context of marriage.  We hope that some of you would prayerfully consider helping in that regard.

If you are willing to consider being interviewed, you may contact us at info@thepurebed.com with your name and a day and night contact number or with your questions about this opportunity.   We will not contact you, however.  Your information will be passed to the network’s producer we’re working with who will contact you to discuss the piece and answer your questions.

Of course, this opportunity is time sensitive as we will likely forward the first few inquiries.

Sex: A Love Offering

Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. I Corinthians 7:3 (King James Version of the Holy Bible)

Sex.

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I Want to Be a Better Lover for My Wife

ImageSo you really want to be a better lover to your wife?  This is a noble aspiration and one that all husbands should share.  people get better at money management and parenting.  In fact, people are constantly looking for ways to improve in and get more out of most areas of their lives.  Why not get better at sex?

The challenge is where do you start, dear husband.  Well, we believe there are three areas that should get his immediate attention: Read more of this post

Scheduling Sex: Make Your Own Special Effects

Your life can be…hectic.  You have children, a job(s) or business, and a multiplicity of responsibilities.  It’s not happening spontaneously.  Too often, it’s barely happening at all.  Sex.

The prevailing myth is that sex in a marriage  is Read more of this post

8 Things Wise Husbands Learn

Wisdom is more than knowledge.  It is, in part, knowing when and how to apply what we know as well as what to do to remedy our ignorance.  And marriage WILL expose our ignorances.  Thus, to help new husbands, men aspiring to wed and husbands who understand the importance of remaining teachable…we offer these 8 things that wise husbands learn.

In no particular order, a wise husband learns: Read more of this post

Energizing Your Sex Life

Energizing Your Sex Life

Image by Łukasz Strachanowski via Flickr

The bad rap on marriage is that wedded couples experience diminished quantity and quality.  Whether it is the familiarity couples enjoy with one another, the rigors of our daily lives or a combination of these and other factors, the reality is that sex can get routine and less fulfilling without some proaction.  We recommend 3 areas that can Read more of this post

The Inaugural Choices Tele-Chat

A new kind of Choices™ Marriage Event…

Join us on this conference call to have your question(s) answered and Read more of this post

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