Communicating Boundaries

Husbands and wives must agree on the rules and boundaries of their sexual activity. It is destructive to ‘guilt’ or to coerce your spouse into sexual activities to which they are opposed or that cause them discomfort. However, sex is best when each spouse is selfless. Each lover must proactively seek to please the other.

We believe, in no uncertain terms, that viewing pornography is destructive to healthy relationships. It is addictive and creates unrealistic images of what sexual intimacy should be. These images are opposite of what sexual intimacy was divinely designed to accomplish. Rather than being selfless and promoting intimacy between two individuals, pornography draws the mind and heart of spouses from one another into a fantasy world of imaginary characters.

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