A Flirt Work!

Do you flirt with your spouse?

Man or woman, healthy marital relationships recognize the importance of affection.  We have blog entries that speak to the value and power of touch.  Beyond that, there are so many subtle ways to ‘acknowledge’ your spouse and communicate an ‘I want’ you message.

And it doesn’t always have to lead to sex!

Flirting is an emotional investment whose yield is trust equity.  This is the build up of confidence that your husband or wife is really into you, values you, desires you…likes you!  Do you know how many couples live together and aren’t convinced the other really ‘likes them’?

Flirting is a wink, a sly smile, a gentle tap on the backside, a stroke on the nape of the neck as you stand in line, a acknowledgement of your specific affection for an attribute of your spouse and more…  What makes these acts flirty is the intention to communicate desire and promote said desire in the other.

Of course, flirting can range from mild to wild.  A wife might show some leg while hubby watches a game.  A husband may slide in behind a wife, hold her waist and whisper sweet ‘somethings’ in her ear.

Listen, you don’t want someone else ‘appreciating’ your spouse’s assets and you haven’t gone there first!  But forewarned is forearmed.  The wilder the flirt, the more likely it is you’ll be expected to ‘cash the check’ your flirt is writing!

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