Who Comes First?

Selfless.  The word sounds noble…is noble.  Selfless.   Are you a selfless lover?

Selflessness is the condition of acting without regard for one’s own desires, needs or reciprocation.  It is the act of doing without payment or recognition.  Completion, fulfillment and accomplishment are the reward of selfless acts.

Can sex be selfless?  [He whistles.]  Can we pleasure our spouse without consideration for whether we are getting anything back in return?

I ask only because it seems that these most dynamic intimate exchanges ride on the wind of unmitigated commitment to the pleasure of another.  That kind of sacrificial focus disregards what can be received and holds on to what can be given!  It is more blessed to give…

Selflessness.  It is the condition of delivering for the sake of good at the expense of self.  It is a conspiracy of spirit, heart and mind to surrender each of itself to each of its own discomfort.  Selflessness.

May I ask you a question?  Between you and your husband or wife, who comes first?  Hmmmmm…

I Co. 7:3 A husband should fulfill his obligation to his wife, and a wife should do the same for her husband.

Song 6:3 I am my beloved’s, and my beloved is mine…

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