10 Things To Know About Marriage

Couple in FieldWe don’t know the origin of these points.  Nonetheless, these are timeless truths worthy of rehearsing to ourselves.  The best plans for our lives are compromised, even sabotaged, by destructive behavior that becomes the norm in too many marriages.

Take a look at what follows and ask yourself “Which of these are true of me?

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Sex and Booze News

According to a study recently conducted among 3000 British women concerning sex and alcohol, 75 percent of women like a drink or two before sex with their partner.  Scarier, 6 percent of the respondents indicated they’s never had sex while sober.  Is this to make sex more bearable?  Is it to deal with body image issues?  Is alcohol consumption a shortcut to managing sexual inhibitions?  Are British females disproportionately dependent on liquid courage? Read more of this post

Available Now! Your Sexual Attitude 2.0

A slavish unthinking adherence to a sexual routine may be comfortable and familiar but it is , likely,  boring and unfulfilling.

This is the plight of too many married couples who’ve consigned sex to a weekend event that is more function than fun.  What can we say to get us to see the necessity of experiencing sexual intimacy that is physically superior, mentally stimulating and emotionally binding?  How do we get us to the next level of sexual fulfillment?  Are we ready to upgrade our attitude toward sex?

Studies show our first real education about sex seems to be between the ages of 12 and 16 years old.  Most report primary sex education was by friends, media, school and a first partner.  Low on the list of primary sources for sex education were parents, guardians, other family members and church.  Ouch!

The key to ever successfully improving or changing is to recognize and acknowledge our deficiency.  Is it possible that we’ve acquired too many bad sexual habits and wrong information over our lifetimes?  Might our expectations, outlooks and experiences be colored by wrong-minded views and inappropriate demands? 

This is certainly true in too many cases.  

One way to know whether we have a healthy attitude toward sex is to ask our spouse whether they see us as committed to their sexual satisfaction and devoted to being an increasingly skilled lover. 

Unfortunately, another hurdle  in our sex lives is that we lie to one another.  “You’re the biggest I’ve ever had” (Makes size an issue.)  “You put your thing down, big Daddy!” (Makes him think hard aggressive penetration is the key to sexual success!)  And, of course, the rap on men is that we say precious little during sex.  We just grunt and grope! (Makes her think all she has to do is moan and wiggle.)

Let’s re-evaluate what is important about our physical intimacy.  What are we accomplishing by coming together (pun sorta intended)?  What can we accomplish?

Let’s start having serious discussions about developing sexual attitudes wherein sex is a means (not an end) of giving ourselves to one another.  In a relationship where the central commitment is to ‘have and to hold ’til death do us part’, what can be more fundamental than to share love that is selfless, focused and unquestionably committed.  Sex can be that…  Sex can do that…

When Love Is Not Enough…

The song says “all you need is love.”  Well, love is essential to a strong healthyspouse marriage.  But is it really enough? Read more of this post

Her Libido’s Fallen and It Can’t Get Up!

A wife’s loss of libido (desire for sex) may involve medical issues requiring the efforts of a medically trained professional or more severe relational issues arising from troubled relationships, present or past abuse.  There may be other circumstances requiring objective intervention by someone outside of the relationship.  


However, in many instances, a healthy drive can be regained and promoted by the dutiful efforts of a loving husband.  that’s you, dude!


We recommend some basic practical approaches to both spouses helping dear wife regain her desire for sex. Read more of this post

Wives: Achieving Orgasm

The most frequently voiced frustration for us is that of wives who cannot achieve orgasm consistently.  We thought to share a few techniques to spark your own imagination and help you and dear husband know the ‘O’!  Let us begin. Read more of this post

God of The Ups and Downs!

God is love.  God created sex.  God loves sex?  No, not exactly.  To make that case, we would have to say that God loves eating, breathing or sleeping.  Doesn’t sound quite right… Read more of this post

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