I read a great line on the dust cover of a book. Intimacy is not technique.
It isn’t exactly a profound statement. Then again, many of the important truths in our lives don’t sound particularly deep when we say them. For instance, all that glitters is not goldis an old adage. No reasonable person will argue with its accuracy and no-one would swoon at the hearing of it. It is a basic truth. Things that look good to us aren’t automatically good for us…or of inherent value. However, knowing this truth, many of us buy cars, choose mates and clothes that look good but are not what we need.
So back to intimacy is not technique. I shake my head that even, as women, many of us often Read more of this post