Why I Love My Husband!

Why I Love My HusbandIt is good to remember to share with our spouses verbal affirmations of what they mean to us and to celebrate their endearing qualities.  In support of the Happy Wives Club’s first link up party, we at ThePureBed.com have decided to list 10 reasons why we love our husbands. Read more of this post

Sex: A Love Offering

Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. I Corinthians 7:3 (King James Version of the Holy Bible)


You do know that Apostle Paul is talking about sex in I Corinthians 7:3, don’t you?  He is making the point that a Read more of this post

Do Not Disturb

Do Not Disturb boudoir sign

We have this:

The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. I Corinthians 7:4 KJV

What is a Christian couple to make of this verse in the context of Paul’s teaching about sexual intimacy in marriage?

As the preceding verse establishes that Read more of this post

8 Things Wise Wives Learn

As a sequel to our post on 8 Things Wise Husbands Learn, we are citing some important wisdom acquired by wives in fulfilling marriages.  These are not, perhaps, the 8 most important things.  They’re 8 common things we’ve discovered as critical among women who are fulfilled in their marriages.

In no particular order, wise wives learn: Read more of this post

Free Romance Kit Giveaway (Closed)

The Pure Bed's Christmas Giveaway!Shopping for His Christmas Gift Just Got Easier!

For those of us who are really busy during the holidays, this gift is the perfect thing.  And The Pure Bed has hooked up with Romantic Marriages to get you one!

RomanticMarriages.com offers an all-inclusive “Merry Christmas Deer” romance kit. This kit makes it so easy to have a little holiday fun and frolic with your husband. The kit begins with a “good boy” letter for your man that says…  “The elves reported you’ve been a good boy by being my man through the year, so Santa decided you’ld get what YOU want.  Delivery will be by his deer!”  You then visit him on the nights leading up to Christmas as Santa’s sexy and slightly naughty deer.  Each deer delivers her own gift that makes a very unique memory.  (All gifts are included in the kit with the exception of a gift certificate to his favorite restaurant.)  The kit is great at creating genuine anticipation as your man wonders which of Santa’s deer are visiting next?  With the arrival of the first deer,  “Flasher” (Dasher’s naughty twin) your holiday fun will begin! 

We like the idea that the girls at Romantic Marriages have thought of doing all the work (the shopping) for you, so you get to have all the fun!  In fact, we’ve decided to give one away.  Here’s how you can receive the kit for FREE!  Write us a short email or letter (up to 200 words or less) on why you want or need to give your husband a romantic Christmas this year.  In two weeks, we’ll choose (1) winner and have Romantic Marriages ship the kit right away so you can have your most romantic Christmas ever! 

1. Entries MUST be received by11:59 PM (Pacific Time) December 11, 2010! 
2. Recipient must be resident of U.S. or Canada.
3. Full name, Mailing Address and email or phone number MUST accompany entry.

Information will be given to Romantic Marriages to arrange shipment.

Send your entries to:



Mail to:
The Pure Bed Christmas Giveaway
P.O. Box 8147
La Verne CA 91750

We look forward to reading your responses!  Oh, and don’t forget to vote for The Pure Bed’s Blog as a 2010 Top Ten Marriage Blog!

The Question of Submission in Marriage-Part I

Love and Marriage

Marriage and Submission

Submit.  The overall perception of this term as it applies in marriage tends to produce a negative reaction in too many of us.  In these more liberal times, even Christians try to negotiate their way out of having submission be a feature in their marriages.  Of what are we afraid?  What is it that we fear about submission? Read more of this post

5 Statements That Reveal Serious Problems In Marriage

Over the years, we’ve heard some common complaints.  Typically made in exasperation, the statements themselves may be as telling of the problems as the description of circumstances surrounding them.

While not always the case, the 5 statements below often point to a need for action on the speaker’s part.

Statement 1: I thought he or she would change after Read more of this post

Foreplay: The Power of Touch

We’ve posted previously about the benefits of sensory deprivation.  Removing the use of one sense tends to heighten the sensitivity of the remaining ones.  We can use this to intensify our spouse’s arousal (or they of us).


Use an old silk scarf or Read more of this post

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